Tag: safety

  • New Video Series will Help You Find Your Favorite Parental Control Software

    New Video Series will Help You Find Your Favorite Parental Control Software

    I am asked about new Parental Control software resources all the time. I always look into each one seriously and develop an opinion on them based on what they offer, how easy they are to set up, and how much they cost. I have worked with enough parents to know the barriers that they will allow to keep them from using a software so those issues are always top of mind.

    The Parental Control Research video series will be a way for me to walk parents thought my study of each parental control offering and break down their ability vs their cost to determine their value. Stay tuned to the BecauseFamily YouTube channel and this site to be updated on the weekly episodes of Parental Control Research with Michael.

    Episode 1 Features BARK, an algorithm based monitoring software made to keep tabs on what your kids are communicating about in messaging and on social media. I find it to be a simple setup, and an even simpler system to use since it is based on reporting to you, not you going to check the data. 

    You can use our affiliate link to sign up for BARK here. Thank you for reading FamilyTechBlog and for subscribing to our YouTube channel. Think of another software you’d like me to check out? Comment below and I’ll get right on it. We’re doing our best to keep your kids safe by educating you on what’s going on in the online world. 

  • Do Not Let Your Kids Download Fortnite for Android

    Do Not Let Your Kids Download Fortnite for Android

    Another Update: August 24 2018 : Google found a security flaw in Epic’s download file for Fortnite.

    UPDATE August 10, 2018: The Google Play Store has added a notice to Fortnite search results that reads: “Fortnite Battle Royale by Epic Games is not available on Google Play.” This addition is an attempt to discourage the download of copycat games that could contain malware, spyware, or other malicious add-on software.

    It’s Not About the Game

    Fortnite is one of the biggest things ever in video games. You can read all about the game and my thoughts on the game here. Thus far, you have been able to play the free Battle Royale game on consoles, computer, and iPhones or iPads. That is changing soon as Epic Games is releasing their smash hit to Android. The problem isn’t that the game is being released, it is how it’s going to be distributed and downloaded. Epic has announced that they are going to bypass the Google Play Store and let you download the game directly from their site onto your Android phone.

    While this doesn’t sound like a big deal, you have to trust me, it is. It is a big deal because of security. Android’s (and Apple’s) app store are places to find apps for your phone that have been vetted for security and privacy before being listed for download. When you “sideload” an app, you are bypassing all of these security or privacy features and putting your data at risk. 

    Sideloading is installing an app onto your Android phone from somewhere other than the Google Play Store.

    Making the game available in through this method will remove the 30% profit share that Google takes from apps downloaded from their app store and gives Epic Games complete control of their software (updates, in-game store, etc.) This is probably a good move for Epic Games’ bottom line but can prove to be a nightmare for some Android users.

    There are more security prompts and features for those who use the latest version of Android’s operating system but estimates say that over 85% of Android users haven’t received the update yet. Especially our kids since most of them are using devices we’ve handed down to them. This means that it is way too easy to end up downloading a fake version of Fortnite and installing spyware or malware along with it. If you’re a grown adult, you can make decisions based on the security and privacy of your smartphone experience but kids should be taught to only ever download games and apps from their devices App Store.

    Screwing Up Your Parental Control Settings

    Android FamilyLink and most third-party parental control apps help you control app downloads using the Google Play Store. If the app they want can be downloaded outside of the app store then you can’t monitor their activity or download permission. If you’re monitoring their activity you’ll want to look for “APK” files. Those are the packages that sideloaded apps come in. If you’re looking at the activity on your kid’s phone and you see thisisafile.APK, you’ll know they are installing apps outside the app store.

    Epic Games’ decision to bypass the Play Store, while maybe a shrewd business move, is definitely going to cause problems for parents who are trying to keep an eye on what their kids are doing on their devices. My advice is that you don’t allow your kids to sideload apps at all. Whether it be Fortnite or anything else, letting your children bypass their device’s built-in security and privacy protections is simply a bad idea. 

    What Parents Should Know

    The security and privacy settings that are built into your smartphones and tablets are there for a reason. It’s very important that you update your devices as soon as there is a new version available. That said, it does you no good to keep your phone updated if you are installing random software from all over the internet. In essence, that’s what sideloading apps is. You’re downloading files that could really come from anywhere and installing them into your device. This can lead to apps tracking your location, listening to your microphone, and even turning on and recording with your camera. The last thing you want is for your son or daughter to install some game and end up with images or video of themselves posted all over the internet by some hacker. 

    Yes, that example is extreme but it has happened before and there are apps out there that contain such harmful code. Even if the problem isn’t that bad, at the very least you’re opening your phone up for viruses that can shut it down permanently. I understand Epic Games trying to make more money by allowing downloads from their website but in this day and age where our data is being collected left and right, wouldn’t you prefer to go through the company that created your device’s software instead of just installing from wherever, willy nilly? 

    Fortnite isn’t that bad of a game, it’s rated T for teen because of the cartoon like violence and online experience. It has potential to be addictive for some kids and should be monitored for that reason. Again, I’m not saying every parent should avoid letting their kids play it, I’m saying you shouldn’t let them install it on Android from anywhere except the Google Play store. 

  • Musical.ly is now Tik Tok

    Musical.ly is now Tik Tok

    Today marks a major transition for one of the most popular apps for young teens and tweens. Musical.ly, the lip syncing video app, has been merged with Tik Tok. Tik Tok is another video sharing app that is run by Chinese company, ByteDance. The company acquired Musical.ly in 2017 and has now turned the two apps into one.

    The ultimate goal of this transition is to combine users. Musical.ly has had 100 million users while Tik Tok boasts upwards of 500 million. Putting them together is a move to become a worldwide social video super app.

    What Parents Should Know

    First of all, you need to know what the Tik Tok app is when you see it on your kids’ phones. It is Musical.ly. Musical.ly has been on our uninstall list for a while now because of the social sharing aspect. Now, with 500 million more users, the number of connections your kids can make in the app has increased.

    I advise you to be aware of what apps are installed when your kids phone. Again, we recommend you uninstall TickTock if you see it. Many parents are involved in their child’s usage of the app and that is up to you but I never recommend allowing kids or young teens to use such a social software without supervision.

  • Three Tech Rules in My House

    Three Tech Rules in My House

    I get asked a lot about how I handle my kids’ technology in my house. It is easy to answer this question because I am pretty active in my kids’ tech lives and also because my kids are pretty young. Below are three of our most important rules for keeping our own four kids safe online.

    Rule #1 | It isn’t YOUR device.

    My kids don’t have their own tech devices. We have a shared iPad 2 and iPad Mini and a couple of old iPhone 4s that our kids use. They often try to claim one of the devices or another as their own but we quickly remind them that they don’t own any of them. We tested it with our ten year old for a few weeks and it caused too many problems. Him thinking he could do whatever he wanted because it was just his device led to a lot of frustration when we tried to enforce our boundaries. The solution was simple. All of these devices are shared, you can’t tell your sister not to use it and you can’t take it to bed with you at night. Done.

    Rule #2 | No tech in bed with you.

    This one is a bit tricky since my kids use their devices to listen to noises or music as they go to sleep. The rule, however, is no browsing once it’s lights out. We often just set it for them and forget it so the device stays across the room. There are studies to show that viewing the glowing screen at night can hinder your ability to rest. Lack of rest can cause serious health concerns in our children. Once I explained all of this to my kids, they have done pretty well to respect the “No tech in bed” rule. They want to be healthy just as badly as we want them to be.

    Why I Told My 10 Year Old EVERYTHING About Pornography

    Rule #3 | You gotta ask first.

    My children aren’t allowed to just grab a device and do as they wish. They don’t have passcodes (because built-in restrictions and a wifi content filter are set up) but if they are caught hiding in another room doing something on a device they lose the privilege for at least a week. We make them ask and when they are playing or watching something we nearly always require that it is in a common area. That part of the rule is flexible when they are doing schoolwork on an app and don’t want to be disturbed or but most of the time they have to be somewhere where everyone’s eyes can see their screen. They always, have to ask though. Mom and Dad must know you are using that device. If we find out they were hiding (and we have our ways) there is a major cost.

    We have more rules but these are the simplest and most easily implemented of our plan. They require no software installation or tech knowledge. It’s really just parenting, plain and simple. Your kids need you to set some boundaries. Maybe you can start with these three rules. Do you have some different rules or different ways to implement these same rules? Tell me about them in the comments below.

  • Instagram Has Added 4-Way Group Chat

    Instagram Has Added 4-Way Group Chat

    Available today, Instagram has added a way to chat with your friends while simultaneously creeping the app. Instagram is allowing users to chat with up to four friends over video as well as multitask within the app by minimizing the chat screen. You can call friends directly and they will be notified of the call they can then accept or if they go into your group chat feed and see the icon is blue that means you’re chatting with someone and they can just join.

    Instagram has hit 1 billion users this month and they are doing their best to make it the app that people spend the most of your time in. This update allows users to meet the video chatting need that especially so many young people have and then doubles down with the ability to explore the app while you chat. This makes using Instagram an even more social experience.

    Instagram has also added new camera effects and channels that you can explore that highlight different topics.

    What Parents Should Know

    Video chatting is available in many apps including Snapchat, Facebook, HouseParty, and FaceTime. This is becoming the most common way for our young people to spend time with each other. Retail stores and malls are closing movie theaters are adding features to attract an older audience all because our kids don’t have to go anywhere to spend time with each other.

    Whether this is good or bad is up for you to decide. It is true that studies have been done showing that even video chatting does not meet the same social needs as being in the same room with somebody. So my advice is simply to monitor the amount of time your kids spend on their social media apps. Whether they are chatting with friends, just scrolling through images, or posting their own information. There’s a lot that needs to happen to keep them secure but all experts agree we have to be careful with how much time they spend on their devices.

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  • PODCAST: Will My Family Get an Amazon Echo Dot for Kids?

    PODCAST: Will My Family Get an Amazon Echo Dot for Kids?

    Family Tech Update: YouTube has taken down over 8 million videos, is it enough? Snapchat has games on their camera, and Amazon wants to listen to your kids.

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  • Amazon Echo Dot For Kids Released on the Same Day an Alexa Security Flaw Was Announced

    Amazon Echo Dot For Kids Released on the Same Day an Alexa Security Flaw Was Announced

    Voice is the new screen. That’s what all the tech gurus are saying these days. We’re moving beyond tapping to simply speaking. “OK, Google,” “Alexa,” even “Cortana” have become standard parts of our vocabulary. Even our kids know how to play music, stories, or get help with their math or spelling from a voice-activated assistant of some kind. Voice command started with Siri and quickly became a standard feature in all smartphones and even in some of our vehicles. What seemed like science fiction only 15 years ago is now a common tool for most of our culture.

    We are all hyper-aware, now, of the amount of information tech companies are gathering from our internet use. Since we carry fully connected devices around with us everywhere we go and use them to broadcast our daily routine on social media, there isn’t much that is hidden. Recently, though, we’ve become a bit cautious of how much of our data we share with these companies. It’s one thing to let Google know we like seeing ads on YouTube for our favorite movie genre, but tracking our location and schedule is a bit far.

    A test by security group, Checkmarx, found a security flaw that allowed them to design an app that would leave the Alexa microphone on long after you’ve finished using Alexa. Then, the app would send the hacker a transcript of what the mic picked up while you didn’t know it was turned on. Checkmarx found this flaw earlier this month and reported it to Amazon. It was corrected immediately.

    “Customer trust is important to us and we take security and privacy seriously,” the company said in a statement. “We have put mitigations in place for detecting this type of skill behavior and reject or suppress those skills when we do.” – Amit Ashbel, director of product marketing for Checkmarx

    This obvious flaw is the first of its kind that has been made public. There is no way to know how long it has been around or if it has been used by anyone to collect user data. Amazon was fast to fix the issue but only after a third party research group found the problem in the first place. There are always security risks with any smart-home or virtual device and having a microphone that is always on compounds that risks. The popularity of Alexa and Google home is ever increasing, though, despite these risks. With the outcry against Facebook for their data collection and usage, it seems interesting to me that these fully connected, in-home virtual assistants are becoming so common. So common, in fact, that they’re being designed for our kids.


    Enter, the Echo Dot for Kids


    The news of this breach was released today, and interestingly, so was Amazon’s new Echo Dot for Kids. The Alexa enabled personal assistant speaker comes with a protective case, a replacement warranty (for the inevitable drop on the hardwood floor), a year’s worth of Amazon Freetime, built-in parental controls, and a bunch of skills (apps) that are geared towards kids. The Dot will read to your kids, help them with homework, play kid-friendly Audible audiobooks and more. The Echo Dot for Kids is $79.99 on Amazon.com.

    What Parents Should Know

    Being able to lock your kids out of explicit music and audiobooks, disabling entertainment features in favor of educational skills, turning off voice purchasing, and other parental control options make the Dot for Kids a pretty appealing piece of technology. I am, however, very skeptical of putting a marketing company’s microphone in my kids’ rooms. I know that doesn’t sound like the opinion of a tech nerd but my distaste for targeted marketing to minors and collection of the data of children will always outweigh the desire to be in with what’s trendy in technology.

    Though the Alexa security flaw has been resolved, I wonder how long it will be until another workaround is discovered? I bet it’ll be pretty soon. Here’s why: Amazon is trying to strike a balance between a way to gather the most information about your family as possible and still make you feel that your information is secure. There will always be functionalities in their systems that allow them to gather just that little bit more than you know they’re collecting. When a security company (at best) or hackers (at worst) find these functionalities, they exploit them to meet their own needs. Sometimes the need is to sell the workaround info to the company to keep it all quiet and sometimes it’s worse, the collection of data for sale or use. We all seem to be ok with Amazon or Facebook or Google having a bunch of our private data. After all, it is often used to make our lives easier and more convenient. The problem comes when something like the Cambridge Analytica fiasco takes place and we have our information being sold to the highest bidder or used to target us with fake news and advertising.

    Unfortunately, as long as we have devices that take in our likes, dislikes, conversations, and habits, we will have companies using that information to further strengthen their bottom line. All I am saying is that, as families, we have to draw our own line. My line is drawn pretty strictly against voice-activated assistants in our home, especially ones designed to be used by my kids. Your line will be somewhere different than mine but I advise you to be knowledgeable about any tech you bring into your home. If you aren’t sure what something does or how it really works, I wouldn’t buy it or use it in the first place. I know that sounds a bit counter-cultural, but the culture seems pretty ok with giving away all of their personal information and then panicking when they find out it’s being misused. I don’t blame companies for that, I blame people. Facebook fooled us once, perhaps shame on them, if you’re fooled again, shame on you.

     

     

     

     

  • Fortnite is Free; and also the Highest Grossing Game on iOS

    Fortnite is Free; and also the Highest Grossing Game on iOS

    Freemium games aren’t new and there is a reason that that category has graced the top of the charts on iOS for a long time now. Fortnite: Battle Royale, however, has rushed into the Freemium Game Revenue lead, making $15 million in the first three weeks since launch. The game, in which you fight it out against 99 other players to be the last man/team standing, is free to download on iPhone. You don’t buy items to increase your skills or character’s strength, you just buy costumes and dance moves. Obviously, the lack of game-changing in-app purchases hasn’t hurt the bottom line for Epic Game’s wildly popular third-person shooter and crafting game.

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    What Parents Should Know

    For my thoughts on shooter games and kids, you can read my game reviews and listen to this BecauseFamily Podcast episode. As far as in-app purchases go, it is up to you. You should know how to set up your kids’ devices to not allow purchases without approval. Failure to set this up will likely lead to surprise expenses as the temptation for that new dinosaur hat or “Carlton” dance moves becomes too great for your kid to withstand. 

    My advice is for you to talk to your kids about the time they spend playing games on their devices. Make sure you have an understanding of what a healthy amount of time on devices looks like. Also be sure that you have your credit card settings secured to keep unwanted purchases from surprising you next month. Again, talk to your kids about spending your money on the games they play. I agree that these developers deserve every dollar they make from their games. I also strongly believe that if a kid is underage, it is up to the parents to regulate whether or not their child can spend money on their favorite games. That is up to you as mom or dad.

  • How to Turn Off Hidden Location Access in iOS

    How to Turn Off Hidden Location Access in iOS

    I recently noticed that some of my photos and videos were still being tagged with a location. One of the most common pieces of advice I give to parents is to turn location access off to their cameras. I was a bit annoyed because I never saw location information in my Photos app before, but now I was. Well, I did a bit of digging and found the culprit. It’s about five taps deep into your privacy settings and, therefore, easy to miss. Below is a short video tutorial to help you be sure location info on your phone stays as private as possible.

    Why Turn This Off

    Your location information is easy to track and very easy to gather from the data in the videos and pictures that you upload to social media. There have been instances of kids being harassed by predators who learned where they were through images their parents had shared online. Common sense tells us never to post pictures or videos that show an address number, school name, or sign of a place you frequently go with your family. The problem is that some of the apps on our phones tag our locations by default. I recommend you look at every app’s location request and ask yourself, “Does this app HAVE TO know where I am to function properly?” If it does not, then turn off access to your location.

    Hopefully, this short video helps you make the changes you need to feel like your privacy is even more secure. I know I feel better.