Category: Social Media

  • Facebook to Release Dating Feature

    Facebook to Release Dating Feature

    Facebook is getting into the dating game. At their developers’ event in California last week, Mark Zuckerberg announced a new dating feature for Facebook. The feature will be opt-in only and will feature only the users’ first names. You can scan through people’s dating profiles (separate from their FB profile) and select whether or not you’re interested in them. If you both see each other and show interest, you’ll be connected through a built-in messenger feature.

    Tindr has had the dating app scene under control for a while, but like Snapchat, Facebook seems to be out to take some of the spotlight. This foray into online dating isn’t surprising since many (1 in 3) relationships already begin online. It is an obvious move towards Facebook becoming the one-stop app for most of your social media needs.

    What Parents Should Know

    There hasn’t been a release date announced for Facebook’s dating feature. It is, however, said to be completely separate from your Facebook account and it’s a feature that you have to opt-in to so it isn’t automatically available. If your kids or teens are on Facebook, they will likely have the option to join the dating feature since the age limit is set at 13 for the social media service.

    I recommend not allowing your younger kids to use apps like Tindr since they are meant to make contacts for face to face meetups. There are many healthy relationships that have started on dating apps but there are also many stories of young people being tricked into accepting invitations from people who have no business contacting them. I would put Facebook’s dating option on my list of dangers for your kids under 18. It is a feature that is intended for adults and should only be used by adults. I also warn against messing around with it as a married person. As crazy as it may sound, many people who aren’t interested in dating use these apps to just check what kind of people would be interested in them. Facebook is already one of the leading topics of dissent in the marriage counselor’s office. The dating app could (I submit that it definitely will) increase the frequency of marriage problems caused by social media.

  • PODCAST: Will My Family Get an Amazon Echo Dot for Kids?

    PODCAST: Will My Family Get an Amazon Echo Dot for Kids?

    Family Tech Update: YouTube has taken down over 8 million videos, is it enough? Snapchat has games on their camera, and Amazon wants to listen to your kids.

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  • Snapchat Adds Games to Their Camera

    Snapchat Adds Games to Their Camera

    Snapchat’s newest update adds gaming to their camera. That’s right, you can now use their augmented reality camera to play silly games. Some are even multiplayer. They’re calling the games “Snappables” and they range from throwing kisses at each other to dance competitions. Users control the games with their face or touch and motion controls. Snap is planning to release new Snappables weekly featuring basketball, alien combat, and a lot of other themes.

    What Parents Should Know

    Right now, the multiplayer Snappable games are centered around your friend list. This means you shouldn’t be able to play games with random players you have never met. That could be an added feature and we’ll let you know if and when that is the case.

    I recommend knowing what your kids are using their social media apps for. If they are connecting with their friends to play games and chat, and you’re ok with that, then that is just fine. I never recommend allowing your kids to meet new people online through Snapchat or other social media apps. Games like Snappables are pretty harmless other than more ways to waste time and the obvious opportunity for corporations to launch games featuring their brand for advertising. More than anything, just stay knowledgeable about what your kids are doing online and keep the conversation open with them. This way they won’t be concerned about you seeing what they do online and the lines of communication will stay open with them.

  • How To: Encrypt Your Facebook Messenger Conversations

    How To: Encrypt Your Facebook Messenger Conversations

    Facebook’s data mining habits have been in the news for the past few weeks and today they’ve admitted that they’re reading your private messages in FB Messenger. They use some of this information to better your experience, they scan images and text to be sure you’re not breaking any of their policies and to check in on reported users. They also, however, scan your messages to receive more data about you. Advertising has been in messenger for a while and your private conversations are being used to customize that info for marketers.

    Check Out: How to download your Facebook Data…

    Facebook messenger has had a way for you to encrypt (or hide info in) your messages for a while, the above video is a walkthrough on how to turn those settings on. Unfortunately, you have to opt-in per conversation but once it’s on your messages are encrypted “end to end” meaning they can’t be read by Facebook’s AI and should they be intercepted by a third party, they would come through as gibberish-like code instead of the messages you’ve sent. 

    Here is a step by step guide for turning on “secret conversations” in messenger.

    1. Select the conversation you’d like to make secret.
    2. Tap the name of the group or contact above your conversation thread.
    3. Scroll down and select “Secret Conversation.”
    4. That’s it…you’re encrypted.

     

  • New Snapchat Feature Enables 16 Person Video Chat

    New Snapchat Feature Enables 16 Person Video Chat

    Group chat has been available for a long while now, even in Snapchat, but now you can hang out with a large group of friends on video without ever leaving home. Snapchat’s new group video chat feature is now available and allows you to include 15 of your friends. You can sign on to a regular chat and add friends as you go or set the chat up with your large group from the beginning. Of course, Snapchat’s AR filters and masks will be available during these chats as well. Another feature that is available with this update is tagging or mentions. You can “@” tag a friend in your posts so they’ll be notified that you’re mentioning them.

    What Parents Should Know

    Parents should already know how much time their kids spend on social media. If unsupervised, they’ll chat with friends and creep their timelines all day long. In fact, many teens say they feel addicted to social media, while not doing anything to curb their own addictions. Addiction isn’t the only problem with extensive social media use. Social contact over our devices has proven to be far less beneficial than face to face interaction. There have been countless studies comparing video chat to actual conversations with someone in person and the conclusion is always the same. Spending time in the same room as someone is better for your development than only texting, calling, or video chatting. Take this excerpt summary from ScienceDirect.com’s 2014 study.

    When engaging in face-to-face communication, social information is conveyed by vocal and visual cues within the context of the situation. Nonverbal communication, defined as communication without words, includes apparent behaviors such as facial expression, eye contact, and tone of voice, as well as less obvious messages such as posture and spatial distance between two or more people (Knapp & Hall, 2010). The understanding of these kinds of nonverbal social cues is particularly important for social interaction because of the need to modify one’s own behavior in response to the reactions of others (Knapp & Hall, 2010). – ScienceDirect.com

    With apps such as Houseparty and Snapchat’s group chat out there, we have to be more intentional than ever about the time our kids spend on their screens. Hanging out with friends through our devices is becoming easier and more acceptable. Kids aren’t going out as much, the malls are closing, arcades are few and far between, and movie theaters are having to serve food like restaurants to attract the older generations because the younger ones aren’t as interested. Why go out when you can stay in and hang out with your friends online? Video chat can be an awesome way to stay in touch with long-distance family or friends but when our kids leave school and go home to do their homework while video chatting with six of their best buds all evening, something is missing from their life experience. We have to monitor their online activity and set time limits. Use unGlue or Circle to set some boundaries. Talk to your kids about the importance of face to face interaction. Don’t deny them opportunities to go spend time with friends (in families you trust). Drive them to that get-together or youth group event. Say yes when a friend wants to come over. Give them opportunities to spend face to face time with friends, outside of school, and you’ll be giving them the best chance you can to develop the skills they need to succeed.

  • PODCAST: Social Media isn’t For the Users Anymore

    PODCAST: Social Media isn’t For the Users Anymore

    Family Tech Update: Entertainment Software Rating Board will Warn Parents of In-Game Purchases in Video Games – Movie Pass Reveals that They Collect Much More of Your Data than You Thought – Netflix Testing “Patches” to Reward Kids’ Binge-Watching – and Social Media isn’t For Users Anymore!

    Show Notes:

    Facebook’s algorithm change
    Instagram never going back to chronological
    Pay for reach…
    For Parents
    there’s a system behind social media
    marketers are paid to manipulate the system
    Companies make decisions based on marketing opportunities
    Social Media isn’t made for the user anymore
    No social media until 17…

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  • Movie Pass Reveals that They Collect Much More of Your Data than You Thought

    Movie Pass Reveals that They Collect Much More of Your Data than You Thought

    Several websites and apps have recently gone viral through facebook posts. These apps allow you to connect your Facebook account and see pictures of yourself be changed in some way. Maybe to look like a movie star or a politician or a model. Sure, we all want to see ourselves as celebrities or as the latest magazine cover model but there is a price to pay. If these things seem too free or cheap to be a good idea, it’s because that’s exactly what’s going on. They don’t have to charge for access to those little images or services because they make their money by selling your data.

    MoviePass made waves several months ago with their inexpensive movie theater subscription service. Their app was super successful because ten bucks per month is a super low price for up to one movie per day in the theater. I remember seeing this offer shared online numerous times over the past several months. People were amazed that it actually worked and in a world where there are mega blockbuster movies being released every month, an all-access pass is a value that seems too good to be legit. The truth is, it isn’t as legit as you may think.

    At a recent event, Mitch Lowe, the CEO of Movie Pass gave a talk called “Data is the New Oil: How MoviePass will Monetize It.” In it he bragged about the amount of data the app received from its users:

    “We get an enormous amount of information. We watch how you drive from home to the movies. We watch where you go afterwards.” he even said, “We know all about you.”

    Data mining isn’t new, in fact, it has been happening almost since the dawn of the internet. The difference is how little information the companies are required to give users about the amount of data they’re tracking and what they do with it. Terms of Service and Privacy policies are rarely read by users and even if they were, they give the most bare-bones information about the practices of the company. MoviePass claims to ping your location data once when you search for movies in your local theater. It seems they do a bit more than that.

    We are all a bit used to our data being tracked by the sites we use. We’ve seen ads from Amazon show up on our Facebook feeds every single day for years now. Unfortunately, however, not all of the data that companies like Viralemon and MoviePass receive is about what we’re shopping for. This data can be sold to other advertisers and be used to add promotional options to their apps or websites. The biggest concern is the often less than effective security protocols these companies have. If their site is compromised for some reason, all of that data can get into the hands of hackers with less than wholesome intentions.

    My Advice

    First of all, don’t give random sites access to your social media pages. If a site, game, or activity redirects you to a link that asks you to click ALLOW in Facebook then click away immediately. If you want to upload a picture, that’s up to you but letting a sill site like that access your Friends list, timeline photos, profile photos, videos, page clicks, likes, and who knows what all else is just a bad idea. Always.

    Don’t upload pictures of your kids to these sites. Photos of kids are prime real estate. It sounds sick but you wouldn’t believe the use for random pictures of your son or daughter in the marketing, advertising, and much worse industries.

    If it sounds too cheap to be legit…IT IS NOT LEGIT! This one speaks for itself, if they aren’t making money by charging you to use their service or buy their product then they’re making money some other way. In the internet/connected age, they’re almost always making money by selling your information.

    Share and don’t Share! Cool, you are now well aware of the risks of giving these sites access to your social media accounts. Now you need to share this knowledge with your friends. Remember that if they give away their info, much of that info could include you. Let them know it isn’t safe and then stop sharing these dumb, clickbait, data mining apps and websites so that they’ll stop going viral, stop making money, and have to shut down. That would make the internet a much safer place.

  • TUTORIAL: How to Download All of Your Photos, Videos, and Messages from Facebook at Once

    TUTORIAL: How to Download All of Your Photos, Videos, and Messages from Facebook at Once

    There could be a number of reasons you’d want to download all of your Facebook data. Maybe you’re making a fresh start but don’t want to lose photos and videos, maybe something’s going on and you need message data downloaded, or maybe you just want to back up all your data for when the giant electromagnetic pulse goes off someday and the internet comes crashing down. Whatever reason you’re interested, here are the simple steps you can take to download all of your Facebook info at once. The tutorial video is at the bottom of this post.


    1. Go to your settings page.

     


    2. Click on Download a copy Facebook Data

     


    3. Click download archive.

     


    4. Enter your password and click Submit

     


    5. Your data downloads as a zip file.

     


    6. Once unzipped, you’ll see your files separated into folders.

     


    7. Keep somewhere safe and share with caution as some of the data is personal.

     


    There are the instructions. Here’s a video tutorial:

     

     

  • Here is our Uninstall List for This Spring

    Here is our Uninstall List for This Spring

    Some apps are just annoying, some are a bit risky, others should just be uninstalled. This is the list of apps that FamilyTechBlog thinks should be removed from your kids’ phones on sight. No, this isn’t an exhaustive list. There are plenty more apps that can be dangerous. Our list features some of the most popular apps in each category and apps that highlight a certain genre that may need to be avoided altogether.

    Feel free to click on the image below to see the large version of the infographic. If you want some help with internet safety resources and strategies, contact us here. Also, share this post with everyone you know. Let’s make a difference and spread something helpful on our social media timelines for a change.

    FAMILYTECHBLOG.COM UNINSTALL LIST
    SPRING 2018

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